Especially good here4 hDinner moneyBeach until the sun's gone
Salt, a towel big enough for two, and dinner with sand still on your feet.
The twist: Write something in the sand and let the tide take it.
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Date ideas by city
16 dates for Sydney, in the order the city deserves, with real places near the centre for the stops.
The beaches, the harbour and its ferries are all part of the city, so the ideas by the water come first.
The ideas
Especially good here4 hDinner moneySalt, a towel big enough for two, and dinner with sand still on your feet.
The twist: Write something in the sand and let the tide take it.
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Especially good here2 hDinner moneyAn hour on the water going mostly in circles.
The twist: Take turns rowing. The passenger narrates like a nature documentary.
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2 hPocket changeSomething sweet from a bakery, a blanket, and the best view in town as the light goes.
The twist: Each of you brings one thing the other has never tried.
In Sydney, try
2 hPocket changeAn alarm neither of you wanted, a view with nobody in it, and the first coffee of the day.
The twist: Phones stay in pockets until the sun is fully up.
In Sydney, try
1.5 hPocket changeTwo scoops each and a park to get lost in.
The twist: Order the flavour you think the other one will pick. Swap if you're wrong.
In Sydney, try
2.5 hPocket changeSlow paths, a bench with a view of nothing in particular, and tea after.
The twist: Find the plant that looks most like each of you.
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3 hDinner moneyA table for two, then a walk with no destination until somebody's feet hurt.
The twist: Order for each other. No vetoes.
In Sydney, try
2.5 hPocket changeEighteen holes of trash talk and a very serious scorecard.
The twist: Winner picks the dessert. Loser pays and takes the photo.
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2 hPocket changeTwenty minutes apart in a bookshop, then coffee while you explain yourselves.
The twist: Write the first page a note before you hand it over.
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3 hDinner moneyOne hour, not the whole building. Then a bar to argue about what you saw.
The twist: Each choose the piece you'd steal. Defend it.
In Sydney, try
2.5 hDinner moneyBad shoes, worse technique, a plate of chips in the middle.
The twist: Every gutter ball is a truth. Every strike is a dare.
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2.5 hA treatSixty minutes to find out how the two of you work under pressure. Drinks after to recover.
The twist: No blaming until the first drink arrives.
In Sydney, try
2 hFreeSmall rooms, free to walk into, and nobody minds if you whisper.
The twist: Title every piece yourselves before you read the label.
In Sydney, try
3.5 hDinner moneyThe back row, shared popcorn, and somewhere still open after the credits.
The twist: One of you picks the film, the other picks the seats and the snacks.
In Sydney, try
2.5 hDinner moneyA pocket of coins, air hockey grudges, and a prize nobody needs.
The twist: Pool your tickets. Whatever they buy lives on the shelf forever.
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3 hDinner moneyA beginner's wall, chalky hands, and one of you holding the other's rope.
The twist: Dinner's on whoever says 'I can't' first.
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The best-placed spots within 1.5 km of the centre, ranked the way the dates map ranks them. Tap one to see it on the map.
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Before the date
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