Question cards

Three decks: light ones for the sofa, closer ones for later, and a deck for long distance. Pass the phone, read it out, both answer.

Silly ones, for the sofa.

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Whoever is holding the phone reads it out. You both answer.

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96 questions to ask your partner

All three free decks: light ones for the sofa, closer ones for later and a deck for when you're apart. Pass the phone, read one out, and both answer.

Light

What's the most useless thing you're weirdly good at?
Which of my habits did you pretend to like at the start?
If we opened a café tomorrow, what would it be called and who does the washing up?
What's a hill you will die on that does not matter at all?
Describe our first date as a film title.
What food would you ban from the house if you could?
Which of us would survive longer in the woods, and why is it me?
What's the worst gift you've ever had to look pleased about?
You get one do-over of a day we've had. Which day?
What would your villain origin story be?
What do I do that makes you laugh when I'm not trying to be funny?
Pick a theme song for each of us walking into a room.
What's the most expensive thing you've ever broken?
If our life was a sitcom, what would it be called?
Which celebrity would you trust to plan our wedding?
What's a food you pretend to like for my sake?
What would you name our boat?
Which of my friends would last longest in a horror film?
What's the weirdest thing you've googled this month?
What's the most dramatic thing you've done to avoid a phone call?
What's a song you know every word to and aren't proud of?
Which of my stories have you heard so often you could tell it better?
What animal do you think I was in a past life?
If we robbed a bank, whose fault would it be that we got caught?
What's the pettiest thing you've ever got annoyed about?
Which film would you happily watch with me forever?
If you went on a quiz show, what would your specialist subject be?
What's a trend you secretly loved?
If I were a dish, what would I be?
What's the first thing you'd buy if we won the lottery?
Which of us would be worse at camping?
What's the strangest dream you've had about me?
Name three things in our fridge right now. No looking.
What's a bad habit you're secretly proud of?
If we had a pet that could talk, what would it say about this house?
What's a word you always say wrong?
Which film romance would never work in real life?
What would your job be in a medieval village?
What's the funniest thing I've said in my sleep?
Which hobby did you buy all the gear for and quit within a month?
Which job would you be fired from on the first day?
What would our band be called?

Closer

When did you first think this might be something?
What's something small I do that makes you feel looked after?
What did you need as a kid that you're still learning to ask for?
What's a version of our life in five years that would make you happy?
When do you feel most like yourself around me?
What's one thing you wish we did more of?
What's something you've never quite managed to tell me?
Which moment of ours do you replay the most?
What are you proud of that nobody ever asks about?
How do you like to be comforted when it's been a bad day?
What's a fear you'd like me to understand better?
What does a perfect ordinary Tuesday with me look like?
What's something you've changed your mind about since we met?
When did I last make you proud?
What's a memory of us you never want to lose?
What does home mean to you now?
What's one way I could love you better?
What's a dream you've put on hold?
When do you feel closest to me?
What's a habit of mine you'd miss if it stopped?
What did your parents get right about love?
What's something you'd like us to learn together?
What's the kindest thing anyone has ever done for you?
How do you know when something's wrong with me, even if I don't say it?
What's something you forgave that still matters to you?
Who in your life would you trust with anything?
What part of your childhood do you want our life to have?
What reaches you most: words, time, touch or help?
What's something about me you only understood later?
What would you tell the you from the day we met?
What's a small promise you'd like us to make?
When did you last cry, and why?
What does a good apology look like to you?
What would you like to stop worrying about?
What's a tradition you'd like us to start?
Which year of your life would you live again?
What do you need more of from me this month?
What do you like about yourself that I might not see?
What would make next year our best one yet?
What's the bravest thing you've ever done?
Where do you see us when we're old?
What do you hope I'll always remember about you?

Far apart

What's the first thing we're doing when I land?
Show me something within arm's reach and tell me its story.
What part of your day do you most wish I'd been there for?
What's a smell, a song or a place that is now just you, to me?
What's the hardest hour of the day to be apart?
Describe the view from your window right now, badly.
What's one ordinary thing you can't wait to do together again?
What should I send you in the post this month?
What did you eat today? Rate it. Be honest.
What have you got better at since we've been doing this long distance?
Where will we live when the distance is over? Wrong answers only.
What do you want me to know before we hang up tonight?